Yes, I had found the Moss childs death record, but could not prove it was my Harriet as the mother. Harriet, as well as all of her siblings are still living with their mother in the 1880 Trigg census. So I always looked for a marriage record after that date. Richard was killed in 1873 in Roaring Springs, I have newspaper account of that and also the inventory of his estate and sale of same. It does not list the children by name. Sue Vier, from Roaring Springs, her mother was my Dad's Aunt, told me she was pretty sure Harriet married a Joiner, but could not recall a given name. Sue's son married Elanore Joiner in Trigg, but I have never been able to connect with her to see if she can shed some light on the problem I have a reprint of the Jackson Purchase book by Neel. Also have copy of Vital Stats for Trigg Marriages 1874-1910 and Deaths 1861 + 1874-1910. Do not find Harriet or her Joiner guy in those. Thanks for your info. I'll keep trying to pin it down. Helen