This is a Message Board Post that is gatewayed to this mailing list. Classification: Query Message Board URL: http://boards.ancestry.com/mbexec/msg/rw/BBB.2ACI/1995.1 Message Board Post: I don't know if we will be able to help each other or not. Did your father know a woman by the name of Violet (Viela) Young, DeSantis and eventually Flynn? My father was born Sept 1940. His mother was married to Tony DeSantis. We never knew Tony, and didn't understand why he left, until a couple of days ago. This past Saturday I spoke with a woman who told me that Viela had an affair while married to Tony and that Tony was not his father. One of the names she gave me was Munninghoff and the other was Yeary. She believed Munninghoff was the father, but with your dad stating he had a son, I'm questioning this now. My father's name is Andrew (Andy) DeSantis. Christina Young, was his grandmother. I'm wondering if your father had mentioned any names to you? Most of the people that knew anything of this are long since dead and when they were living would give nothing but lies about it or a simple subject change. It was a distant cousin of my father's that I actually fo! und this much information out. Either way, please feel free to email me to let me know either way.