Carrie, your unidentified object is <G> just that. Apparently lately it's either. As much as I enjoy this banter it is a tad unpredictable. Maybe we can get the sysop to respond and re-define the guidelines. In my opinion and experience it is out of the ordinary - personally if I connect with a "cousin", I like to keep these correspondancies private. But still, not to take away, there is a warmheartedness that we can appreciate.