I once asked my mother what my great-grandfather, Lee Forrest Hayes was like, and she said he was a decent, honorable man who didn't want to bring any harm to anyone. She said that was why he refused to join the Kentucky Night Riders when they asked him too. I asked her what were the Night Riders and she said, "Just something our family didn't want to have part in." H.E. Schardt There are no mistakes. The events we bring on ourselves, no matter how unpleasant, are necessary in order to learn what we need to learn; whatever steps we take, they're necessary to reach the places we have chosen to go. --Richard David Bach