Dear Katie- I am sorry I can not help you personally, other than a bit of encouragement........ It can be done! I began posting queries on adoption sites for my husbands 3 adopted sisters and within months they came across our postings. After 50 years, my husband has reunited with his 3 older adopted sisters (adopted separately too). We had a reunion to include all siblings and the birth parents! WONDERFUL! Don't give up....... Best Wishes, Marla On Thu, 12 Oct 2000 16:00:23 -0700 [email protected] writes: