Pat & Sandy thanks for addressing/clarifying this issue. And Pat a specially, BIG thanks you, thank you, thank you for all the help you have so generously given to everyone. Anyone should be able to understand we would never have gotten this far with our family history if you had chosen to be one of those "SILENT KORNEGAY'" list members. I, for one, do realize all of the hard work & time involved in doing what you have done for us and how it robbed you of time and energy to work on your own lineage. Your burden has been great...just remember my dear cousin "if you give you receive" and although it may not be in this particular situation, I hope the universe will bless you in many other ways. How long could a list family survive if everyone chose to be a silent Kornegay? Kuz'n Kathlynn