Carmen, Congratulations!! Last year I got an email from a total stranger asking if I knew a Rennow in California in the 1960s. She had just started her search for her birth mother. I knew her mother and her father and her full sister. She was prepared for a long search. She was not prepared for an instant family. Some of her reunion has been great and some pretty negative. I think over all she is glad she found them. Personally, I am very proud to have her in the family. I hope your positives outweigh any possible negatives. Cousin Dennie