In a message dated 9/6/2008 7:20:42 A.M. Pacific Daylight Time, JohnOBrien@kc.rr.com writes: Or, send us some suggestions. (We are not 100% sure that her birth name was BRAM.) How about using the Soundex method - to me Bram could be heard as Graham, pronounced Gram, first thing that came to mind and Bram Stoker's book wasn't more than off the press and ink not yet dried so likely not related to Val the Impalers author of old Dracula...Then we have Fram, oil filter, and not too many other sound alikes. **************Psssst...Have you heard the news? There's a new fashion blog, plus the latest fall trends and hair styles at StyleList.com. (http://www.stylelist.com/trends?ncid=aolsty00050000000014)