Hi Marilyn and List, You asked about specific rules regarding this list and I have to say I only have a couple. First of all, NO FLAMING! For those not familiar with this term it means If you can't say something nice, then don't say anything at all." An old axiom, but still very true. There is nothing worse than being on a list and reading one lister insulting another. If someone does resort to that, they will be removed from the list. That's it-gone. The second is to try your best to contribute as well as receive. We truly have a wonder in John O'Brien. He has been tireless in his contributions to the list, others on this list and to me personally. He single-handly found the whole western side of my family and I will be forever greatful. I do realize that circustances and distance make this difficult for many, but if you do have resouces, please share them. Communication on list and off is perfectly OK. If you have a cause for complaint, just do your best to be kind and tactful in your posting. So folks, there you have it, nothing too complicated. Just have fun. Maureen, Listmom