Patti, I would have been helpful if you had included names ages and birthhplaces of family members from 1901 and 1911 census. That gives us a sense of timeframe and location. 1911 also has years married, telling us when to look for the marriage. I'm guessing any children were born after civil registration in 1864. So you might check for data on the new FamilySearch site. They've started to include Irish records from that date, but I'm not sure about Wexford. Peter