Dear Cara, I have belonged to the Dublin web site for 12 years and have yet to have a problem with ANYONE . Everyone has been helpful to me in my quest for the Doyle family (as far away as France!) I believe that anything not pertinent to the genealogy should be kept off the list. Our time is precious and I am sure so is Cara's. Thank you for keeping us all on track in our quest. I don't think anyone should be offended if you once in a while remind us what our goal is. Questions should be asked off list pertaining other than genealogy. There is nothing wrong with that. Thanks for all you do and your guidance to keep us on the right path. Sincerely, jean in Florida