Helen, You don't say where you've looked. You'd be looking for a marriage of Mr CONOLE and Hanora DALTON around 1860. Unfortunately, Clare records aren't on the RootsIreland site, but you might check various records at Clare Library site. Children born after 1864 should be on Civil Registrations on Family Search. It may not give parents but will give clues to registration district. You don't say if you've found Hanora in 1901 & 1911 census. I couldn't see her in a quick look for Conole. Maybe you can provide the exact spelling and location. Knowing surname spelling and registration district may help narrow possibilities for Conole deaths between 1879-1901. Peter