Hi, Im inclined to think there are two families, Casey is such a common name in Ire. There are two James Caseys on glasnevintrust.ie deaths in 1868 but this is a Dublin graveyard. I only mention it to show how common this name is. Internment.org is a good source for burials. Maggie the Dub Yes Casey is so common that I've begun approaching it from the sides. Patrick CASEY b. abt 6 May 1847 in Ireland married first to Mary O'GRADY or Grady b. 1844 possibly in Kilshanny . Together they had 7 children 1st 2 born in Ireland and the rest born in Holliston. Several of the folks that work at St Mary's helped me years ago with locating some marriages of the children and christenings but they were unable to answer why the memorial to James Casey stood there without a death in the records they were able to tell me that the person who paid for it didn't have the surname Casey. Another frustrating thing is that I can find no record in the Censuses of James widow and she isn't supposed to have died until March 1913 in Holliston.