Look, if you don't like how someone posts a message, delete it. Do not presume that it is your job to take anyone to task on this list. That is my job alone. Anyone doing it again, will be removed from the list. Delete keys do a wonderful job and don't offend anyone. I note that every now and then I have to get tough on the list. For the most part I allow people to carry on with their genealogy business, but beware!!!!! I try to rule this roost gently, but can be tough when necessary. When you least expect that I am reading emails, I shall appear like a phoenix rising up from the ashes!!!!! I am almost always around.... so please maintain professional etiquette and USE YOUR DELETE KEY instead of being rude to people. Don't understand it? Delete it. It makes no difference in your life to delete an unclear message that you don't want to deal with. But it does make a difference in someone's life if you are rude to people here. It will not be tolerated! Now, back to genealogy, and be nice, kids! Love ya List Admin - Denise