Hilda: Thank you for your post, but there is no need to apologize. You have not overstepped any mark. This list is for the purpose of asking for help. That is what you did. There is nothing to apologize for. I am sure that if Dave could provide you with more information, that he would do so. I would like to ask that those on the list if they are able to help someone who asks a question, please do so. That is what this list is for. To ask, to help, to receive help, and to give help when and where one can. Many mail lists have many knowledgeable subscribers. We have many knowledgeable subscribers to this Cavan list, for which I and others are very grateful. However, let us please not admonish anyone for asking questions. If a question is asked of someone directly and that person cannot provide additional assistance, please allow that person to answer for themselves. I am operating on the premise that we are all adults. For the most part this list runs very well. Every know and then it is necessary for me to give direction on appropriateness on the list. I don't like doing it, but it is necessary. My request is that everyone please be polite to everyone on the list. If anyone wants to be upset with someone, then please let it be me who you are upset with. I am here to moderate and direct the list when it is necessary. I will do so when needed, and love it when I do not have to. Those who have been on this list for quite some time, know that I don't operate very "controllingly" about the list, but I will when necessary. Let's all help one another and not say things to others that we wouldn't want said to us. Before you send a message to the list, think about what you write. Thanks for everyone's cooperation. Denise List Admin In a message dated 12/27/2006 3:30:19 A.M. Eastern Standard Time, [email protected] writes: Message: 1 Date: Wed, 27 Dec 2006 10:22:00 +1100 From: "Hilda Cooper" <[email protected]> Subject: Re: [IRL-CAVAN] WEBSTER FAMILY FROM KILLESHANDRA To: <[email protected]> Message-ID: <[email protected]> Content-Type: text/plain; format=flowed; charset="iso-8859-1"; reply-type=original I apologise most profusely if I have overstepped the mark. I am hurt and upset to say the least if I have cause Dave any angst at all. Dave, please accept my apologies and thank you for the information that you have given me thus far. Sincerely, Hilda Cooper, Sydey, Australia.