Here's what Merriam's has for 'gentleman' : 1. a man of noble birth 2. a man belonging to the landed gentry 3. a man who combines gentle birth or rank with chivalrous qualities 4. a man whose conduct conforms to a high standard of propriety and correct behavior 5. a man of independent means who does not engage in any occupation or profession for gain 6. a man who does not engage in a menial occupation or trade for gain 7. a courteous reference for a man of any social class or condition Doesn't really help to clear it up, does it? <vbg> Take care, Tracy