Don, if she was removed from the city perhaps she was buried across the river in NJ. That's where I found some of my family buried. Several years ago I went the the cemetary and the caretaker there told me that there was a ferry that would take people from NY to NJ in Jersery City. They would have picnics and such as they sold the cemetary plots. So you might want to check there.The cemetary mine went to was NY Bay Cemetary. Ellen Q