try getting the marriage license. I have my grandparent's license from penn with the paper my grandfather's mother was supposed to sign because he was underage. She refused so they married two days after he turned 21. Interestingly enough, when my parents went to Penn several years ago to the church, the priest had the original marriage license. He gave it to my mother. It was well worn and we have no idea how it got to the church. This is no the first time I have heard this--my husband's mother told me that the priest took her marriage license and never returned it to her. So check with the church as well as the vital records office--you never know what you might find! Judy