Hello all Irelanders, I am new to the list and have a questions regarding locating family in cemetaries in Kerry. In 1995, I found my greatgrandfather's first wife MARY MADDEN PATT and her son, MARTIN in a cemetary - Lislaughtin Abbey - in Ballylongford. There was no sign of MARTIN PATT (the husband) himself (d.1927) or his second wife CATHERINE COX (d. 1919), or several of their children who died in childhood. All siblings of my grandfather (children of C. Cox), who lived to adulthood, emigrated to the USA. Any clues of where to look or were tombstones not always erected? My aunt swears that my grandfather put up a stone when he visited Ireland in the 60's. I have been in contact with the cemetary's caretaker and he has found nothing either. Where are the records kept? Lislaughtin Abbey is a ruin. Any help greatly appreciated.