Do you know what Friends Meeting she was a member of? Both here and in Ohio? Most of the early Frazier were Friends. I go to meeting with a Frazier Family, I have barrowed their Frazier book before, so I will ask them to see if they can find an entry for this family in it. If your Absalom was not a Friend, I suspect that Catherine would have been discharged of her membership for marriage outside of the Society, or they could of also been been discharged for marriage outside of the meeting by having a civil marriage, which obviously they did since you found a record of it in the courthouse. They could of asked for forgivenous for this and that would be in a minute as well of that meeting monthly meeting. If when they moved to Iowa and either of them were still a Friend, then they would of asked for a travel minute or a minute of care to be taken to their new home in Iowa where that minute would have been read and made record of in that meeting's minutes and they would have been accepted as a member there that way. Ah, so much to look for. Many meeting's have their old minutes archived, and are stored with various Yearly Meeting Collections. Andrea