Because it is a family we have known for years, she was very nice and seemed interested in other history of the area I shared with her..since this is her father in law's land, I mentioned that "maybe her husband was aware"!!!! " if not I felt they would want to know ,,just in case they did come upon some signs of tombstone,etc.."..and reminded her another neighbor had plowed out a stone in the middle of a field many years back..........the elderly lady who told me, is 96 and living in a nursing home and was not aware of EXACT location.......ruth pride