To reply to a message from the list and send the message privately: 1. click on "reply" (as you've been doing) 2. highlight the list address and then delete it. 3. go to the sender's address on the original message 4. highlight it and copy it 5. paste that address in where the list address was originally 6. write your message and send it It's really very easy; it just takes a bit of effort. Now, if I can just remember to do it. :>) List Mom Barb