It also depends on who you talk to.....My grandfather, Shelby, was married twice, 1st to Cecil and they had 2 children then he married Jimmie (my grandmother) and they had 4 children. According to my dad and his sisters, Shelby divorced Cecil and later met my grandmother. According to my half- cousin, Shelby was dating my grandmother before he was divorced Cecil, then left her while she was sick in bed and left her with 2 small children to support. Guess we'll never know for sure.