Karen, Just a suggestion, the next time you are at the cemetery, leave a message on the stone for the person who is taking care of the plot. Many times they will answer you back. I have left messages in a baggie so that the weather does not ruin it, with my name and address. The next relative to go there will see it and hopefully answer you. Sharon Gill Vanden Bossche Homepage: <A HREF="http://www.geocities.com/sharonv45/index.html"> http://www.geocities.com/sharonv45/index.html</A> E-mail: SharonV45@aol.com ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Why is Leonard Peltier still in prison...??? ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ <A HREF="http://www.freepeltier.org">http://www.freepeltier.org</A>