I just don't have time to do it. The way it works is someone will send me a query. I reply. I get an immediate auto request that I am not in the address book and if I want to be added to their address book. YIKES! Put me in your address book before you send me a query, PLEASE! Anyway, that is the way I get them. Some kind of automated twig in their program that "they" have clicked on. gloria At 07:52 PM 6/15/2009, you wrote: >OK, I have to ask, > >Do you inform the person? Just a generic request to put somebody into >your address book does not let everybody know. I have never had to add >somebody to my address book to receive email [I use Pegasus], so I do not >generally respond to those generic email requests. > >I do not believe that my email is an issue, but if it is, I sure would >like to >know about it. LOL > >Sharon > > > >On 15 Jun 2009 at 19:37, G Frazier wrote: > >me, too. > >I don't go to some website to let someone know that I am not a >spammer/aka >apply for admittance to their email program. I don't need to reply to their >email. > >my 2 cents. > >Gloria > >At 07:32 PM 6/15/2009, you wrote: > >It happens to me too and I feel the same way you do. > > > >----- Original Message ----- > >From: "W Hinton" <wmhntn@frontiernet.net> > >To: <ilmacoup@rootsweb.com> > >Sent: Monday, June 15, 2009 10:51 AM > >Subject: [ILMACOUP] email replies > > > > > > > Just a point that I haven't seen raised before. > > > For those using a hgih security setting or a SpamBlocker > > > on your email program. > > > If you send an e-mail and Expect a reply, then do > > > what is necessary for the reply to get to you. > > > Add the addressee to your address book is one way > > > or set the progam to allow replies to messages to come > > > through. And most importantly make sure you include > > > a correct e-mail address for you. > > > > > > I have been trying to reply to several different > > > messages and the replies are being blocked or > > > refused for a variety of different reasons. > > > I am NOT going to go to a website or other > > > link and request to be added to your address > > > book or program. > > > > > > Am I the only one this is happening to ? > > > > > > Wayne > > > http://gillespieil.com/gillespie/ > > > > > > Check out Macoupin County ILGenWeb page at > >http://www.macoupinctygenealogy.org/. > > > ------------------------------- > > > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to > >ILMACOUP-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without >the quotes > >in the subject and the body of the message > > > > > >Check out Macoupin County ILGenWeb page at > >http://www.macoupinctygenealogy.org/. > >------------------------------- > >To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to > >ILMACOUP-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without >the > >quotes in the subject and the body of the message > >Check out Macoupin County ILGenWeb page at >http://www.macoupinctygenealogy.org/. >------------------------------- >To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to ILMACOUP- >request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without the quotes in >the subject and the body of the message > >Check out Macoupin County ILGenWeb page at >http://www.macoupinctygenealogy.org/. >------------------------------- >To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to >ILMACOUP-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without the >quotes in the subject and the body of the message