I certainly didn't mean to start such a "war" when I wrote about our funeral director telling me to use shaving cream to clean headstones. Please, let's all make whatever decision feels right to us---leave others alone to make their own decision on what to use and not to use and get back to a topic that is peaceful and more the intent of this listserv-----Enough already!!! Darlene <BR><BR><BR>**************************************<BR> AOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's free from AOL at http://www.aol.com.