Linda, I have a notation in my file about John Arnold/Polly Ruyle marriage though you may already have this. Unfortunately, I can't remember who sent this to me--it was a long time ago but I love these wonderful old stories: "Polly Ruyle Arnold of Macoupin Co. (Possum Trot), wife of John Record Arnold, dau. of Moses Ruyle and Elizabeth Kaiser. She was born in 1815, and died in 1896. A family story says that her husband John was deaf and mute, and after dusk, when Polly needed to call him in from the fields for supper, she would climb a tree in their front yard with a lantern and wave it from the tree. " Marriage date in Illinois Statewide Marriages is: ARNOLD, JOHN RUYLE, POLLY 01/03/1843 002/ 00000745 MACOUPIN Carol Dugger Rio Vista, CA