Tim--I'm not sure if it's the same one that you are looking for, but I have a Cynthia Pender {previous married name?} that married my gt-gt-gt grandfather, John Stokes, Sr., on October 21, 1839, in Union Co., Ill. I am reasonably sure that Pender was the name of a previous husband. She died Sept. 15, 1856, in Union Co. She was John's 3rd wife, & he was 61 years old at the time of their marriage. They had 2 sons--Young Ewing Stokes & William Scott Stokes. As I say, this may not be who you're looking for, but thought I would send it on to you anyhow. Larry Selden