Hi Sherry, That person was me. I was shocked to see Gerald's stone as I didn't know he had died. I probably hadn't seen him since he was married but we went to school together and I was friends with his sister, Virginia, and used to go home with her . I was a flower girl at their Grandfather Lilley's funeral. So I knew the family pretty well. I have been hoping to hear from his son. I think I have a snapshot of Gerald when he was in High School that he could have if he would like. I know I have a picture of Virginia. This doesn't say what the first one said, but you will have my name and e-mail address. Also. he is related to Jim Tipsword, through Jim's mother, Winnie Patterson Tipsword, and Jim is my cousin . Thanks for writing again. Sincerely, Gayle Tipsword Norris. E-mail < gltn80@webtv.net > gltn8 To do research on my ancestors is to show respect and veneration for them and myself.