Pam: The Carey burying ground is the North Grove Cemetery in the NE l/4 of the NE l/4 of Section 29, Indian Creek Township in Mills County. It is one and one-half miles east of Hastings, Iowa. Mills County marriages show a Landin W. Silcott and Melissa Cary married Feb 22, 1860 by E.A. Morse, J.P. - no further information given. I think you'll find Silkett the most popular spelling. Abel Cary (1852-1923) is buried next to a Mary R. Cary (1856-1939) in the cemetery at Hasting. They are next to each other but have separate stones. Bev