Deanna, I would also be interested in hearing an answer to your question about what to do with living relatives when publishing (albeit desktop style) what I have collected on various branches of my family. I don't have too much worry about what I do and simply hand out to family members. People do, after all, want to know exactly where they fit in. But I have been asked for the material by a couple of genealogy societies in the towns they lived in. This would be where I foresee possible difficulty. Please share what you learn if it is sent privately. Gloria