It would help to know her name/s as well. Also, any other details about what years she lived where. Thanks Ernie On Dec 22, 2010, at 3:02 AM, Muriel ann Gutierrez wrote: > I am looking for a man by the name of HARRY HAYDEN. The only > information I have > for him is he was the father of my sis in law and she looked all > her life for > him. The info she gave me was he lived in Orange County, CA and > worked for the > railroad. She was born in 1916, so I would want to know about 1915 > on to start. > I can find no record of hers that has anything about him but this > was her > father, she was very adamant about who he was..I have seen her with > a different > surname and I don't know why that was.. She has passed away but I > would like to > find him for her children. I think the railroad could be the > biggest clue. I > don't know anything else about him other than this. I hope someone > can help me > or give me an idea as to how to find him. Thanks, Muriel > > > > > > ------------------------------- > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to HAYDEN- > request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without the quotes > in the subject and the body of the message

Her mother gave her the name of Mabel Arispe. She was not an Arispe for sure. That was her 1/2 brother. She was born in San Diego County I think, she lived there all her life.. Hey that is really something I must look into. She was the oldest of all the children. Eleven survived and all half siblings, she was the only HAYDEN. She told me to look in Orange County, that he was there. I remember the mother mentioning San Luis Obispo a lot but don't know if that would be it or not. A lot of the Comadre's came from there so the family would visit, they never took me with them.I remember when they came to visit the mother would make me sit quietly in the living room until they left. I was not allowed to talk. I met my husband when we were both 14. So their ways was new to me. I loved Mabel very much and was honored to know her and her daughter. Both are now gone. Thanks for the interest. I would love to find him. ________________________________ From: Ernie Jones <ernie_jones@comcast.net> To: hayden@rootsweb.com Sent: Wed, December 22, 2010 7:53:58 AM Subject: Re: [HAYDEN] HARRY HAYDEN It would help to know her name/s as well. Also, any other details about what years she lived where. Thanks Ernie On Dec 22, 2010, at 3:02 AM, Muriel ann Gutierrez wrote: > I am looking for a man by the name of HARRY HAYDEN. The only > information I have > for him is he was the father of my sis in law and she looked all > her life for > him. The info she gave me was he lived in Orange County, CA and > worked for the > railroad. She was born in 1916, so I would want to know about 1915 > on to start. > I can find no record of hers that has anything about him but this > was her > father, she was very adamant about who he was..I have seen her with > a different > surname and I don't know why that was.. She has passed away but I > would like to > find him for her children. I think the railroad could be the > biggest clue. I > don't know anything else about him other than this. I hope someone > can help me > or give me an idea as to how to find him. Thanks, Muriel > > > > > > ------------------------------- > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to HAYDEN- > request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without the quotes > in the subject and the body of the message ------------------------------- To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to HAYDEN-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without the quotes in the subject and the body of the message

I did a quick look at ancestry.com and struck out. BUT.... it was just a quick look. However, you seem to have lots to go on, perhaps more than you realize, especially if you have the names and some birth info of some or all 11 half sibs. If you can't get in the front door then look for an open window. :) In other words try searching for the others in the records and see what turns up. Think outside the box on the approach and try any odd angle you can dream up. Lastly, consider a researcher if you are really really interested in finding Henry. (I do know of one but not sure what he charges or if he could help at all in this situation). Thanks Ernie On Dec 22, 2010, at 9:42 AM, Muriel ann Gutierrez wrote: > Her mother gave her the name of Mabel Arispe. She was not an Arispe > for sure. > That was her 1/2 brother. > She was born in San Diego County I think, she lived there all her > life.. Hey > that is really something I must look into. She was the oldest of > all the > children. Eleven survived and all half siblings, she was the only > HAYDEN. She > told me to look in Orange County, that he was there. I remember the > mother > mentioning San Luis Obispo a lot but don't know if that would be it > or not. A > lot of the Comadre's came from there so the family would visit, > they never took > me with them.I remember when they came to visit the mother would > make me sit > quietly in the living room until they left. I was not allowed to > talk. I met my > husband when we were both 14. So their ways was new to me. I loved > Mabel very > much and was honored to know her and her daughter. Both are now > gone. Thanks for > the interest. I would love to find him. > > > > > > ________________________________ > From: Ernie Jones <ernie_jones@comcast.net> > To: hayden@rootsweb.com > Sent: Wed, December 22, 2010 7:53:58 AM > Subject: Re: [HAYDEN] HARRY HAYDEN > > It would help to know her name/s as well. Also, any other details > about what years she lived where. > > Thanks > Ernie > > > On Dec 22, 2010, at 3:02 AM, Muriel ann Gutierrez wrote: > >> I am looking for a man by the name of HARRY HAYDEN. The only >> information I have >> for him is he was the father of my sis in law and she looked all >> her life for >> him. The info she gave me was he lived in Orange County, CA and >> worked for the >> railroad. She was born in 1916, so I would want to know about 1915 >> on to start. >> I can find no record of hers that has anything about him but this >> was her >> father, she was very adamant about who he was..I have seen her with >> a different >> surname and I don't know why that was.. She has passed away but I >> would like to >> find him for her children. I think the railroad could be the >> biggest clue. I >> don't know anything else about him other than this. I hope someone >> can help me >> or give me an idea as to how to find him. Thanks, Muriel >> >> >> >> >> >> ------------------------------- >> To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to HAYDEN- >> request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without the quotes >> in the subject and the body of the message > > > ------------------------------- > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to > HAYDEN-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without the > quotes in > the subject and the body of the message > > > > > > ------------------------------- > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to HAYDEN- > request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without the quotes > in the subject and the body of the message