I just so happened to glance at my email (yes, I'm really at work but I have a break..) I was a bit dismayed to read a message from one of our members pointing fingers at other members... Ummm... You all KNOW we don't allow that kind of trash talking on the Harper list, now don't you?? So before anyone gets their feelings in an uproar and does/says something they really WILL regret later, the tone and intent of this list should ALWAYS be kind, gentle, kind, friendly, gentle, caring, sharing, etc... I really don't want to see ANYONE replying to the other message except to say something like "Wow! You've just helped me find my gggg grandpappy Harper! Thanks for sharing your data!" As with ALL research (and researchers) we need to check our sources, double check our data. NO FLAME WARS you Harper researchers you... If there's something you DON'T like, my messages included, just hit your delete key please!! We will ALL appreciate your restraint. Jeannette Harper Listmom Harper-L and Harper-D email: budlink@surewest.net