In a message dated 98-06-15 10:06:56 EDT, tazzy@enol.com writes: << You are right i every thing you said except that the rules have changed now a woman can now be sealed to more thatn one husband. In my case my grand mother was sealed to my grand fateher at the insistance of my mother and her sisters, but she wanted to be sealed to her 3rd husband whom she loved dearly and now is dead. So now she can go get sealed to him. I hope this is a helpful. Jackie >> According the the General Handbook, this is incorrect......a LIVING woman may be sealed to only one husband during her lifetime (unless a sealiang cancellation occurs.). A DECEASED woman may be sealed to all of her husbands. The reasoning is that we do not have the right to choose among a person's spouses for them. Only one relationship will be truly eternal...ratified by both marital parties and the Lord. If, in life, a woman is sealed, and then is divorced, she must obtain a sealing cancellation before being sealed to another man. If she is widowed, unless the sealing is cancelled, she may be married for time only. I personally believe that the Lord will sort out all these relationships (including marriages where people stuck together for the sake of the family and weren't very happy) in the millenium and that his desire is for each of us to have a happy eternal relationship.....that there will be time to make adjustments before the judgement day. We will not be required to maintain covenants that we cannot currently support. Michele Brooks