Kathy I am very sorry to hear of the terrible ordeal your little daughter is going through, much less the ordeal the whole family is suffering. We, as adults, can understand that life deals most of us hard blows from time to time, but our faith in God, and our trust in Him helps us understand that He loves us and will be with us all the way as we endure these hardships.....that understanding is hard for a three year old.......however they can understand, and learn God's love for us as you model that love to her. May God give you and your family strength to weather this ordeal, skill and care to the doctors, and full healing to your daughter. Cousin Dewey Hamrick in Tn.