How generous and lovely of you. Your post reminded me that last weekend I traveled to Franklin, TN where my daughter and her family live within two or three miles of an old plantation called Carnton. Recently a book has been written called _Widow of the South_, a fiction work based on the life of Carrie Winder McGavock whose husband was the owner of the plantation. During the US Civil War, she personally had the bodies of the dead Confederate soldiers removed from the battlefield where they lay after the Battle of Franklin to her own land at Carnton. There are over two thousand men buried there, some of them with only a number on their marker. Next time I visit I will leave a small tribute of flowers thanks to your post. Of course, theirs was a lost cause athough all to the good for our country, but sad, nonetheless, because brother was killing brother. Anyway, the book is reportedly going to be a best-seller and movie rights have been purchased. You might be interested in reading about this wonderful woman who never remarried and wore black the rest of her life to mourn her boys who were buried on the land with her departed family members. She now rests there as well. Sandy Memphis, TN USA