Hello Edna and All, My family did not know much about their ancestors or relations. My mother when I was young used to say to me, "we are related to that Fish Shop", "our family had something to do with a pub that was once here on the corner of Swan Lane, but I don't know how", all in Guildford, Surrey. When I started family research and told and showed my dear old aunt, "I have got your grandfathers Birth Certificate", her reply "I don't know how you find all these things out, we were never told anything", my aunt was quite upset to think she did not know about her family, outside of her own circle of relations. My biggest shock in research was when I told this aunt, I was researching my great grandparents, granny and granddad COLE, she replied "that is not their name, it is COUGHLAN", a name that had never cropped up in my family before. To think all of my life until about 9 years ago, I thought I had a granny and granddad COLE, it really upset me at the time, that I was never told about their name. Kind regards Barbara Lewis Mallyon Basingstoke, Hants, UK BarbaraMallyon@lewmal.co.uk ----- Original Message ----- From: "Edna" <ekbrit@rogers.com> To: <HAMPSHIRE-L@rootsweb.com> Sent: Monday, December 05, 2005 11:51 PM Subject: [Ham] Preserving the Past | Borrowed from another list.... | | Edna - Ottawa | | ============================================ | Preserve Your Past! | | Pull up a chair, and let me tell you a story: It is based upon a true event, | though no names will be named.... | It is about the importance of preserving your family heritage, and the | collections of our parents and grandparents when they pass away. | Not terrible long ago, an elderly lady fell ill, and was not expected to | live. | This lady had been the keeper of old family records and papers going | back to the early 1800's. | These had been passed down from generation to generation through | her ancestors, and were kept in her home. | | Her children started clearing out her house, preparing to sell it when | she passed away. Out went box after box of old bibles, photos, records, | diaries, newspaper articles and all manner of information, her family | seeing them only as boxes of musty old papers. | Out with them went two centuries of history, not just of their family, | but of the whole community. Within hours, they were bulldozed into | the local landfill site. | | Well our lady fooled them, and recovered, but not before all was lost. | An isolated incident? No, it happens every day. We have lost our respect | for the importance of history. | Gone are the days where people sat on stools in the local general store | trading news and stories of events of the past. Fading is the tradition of | the oral presentation of History, though there are those who are trying | to revive this tradition. Gone is so many people's love for the treasures | left by their ancestors. They see it as clutter, getting in the way of the | present and the immediate future. | | Our ancestors saw fit to save this information, and so should we. | If you have no interest in your family's past, please realize that there are | those who do, and that those papers in your attic may contain information | that is vital to preserving our most valuable resource, its rich history. | | This is a heart-felt plea. Please, save this information. Please allow it to | be | preserved, if not by yourself, please share it with others. Once lost, it is | lost forever, and can never be recovered. Please don't let one more boxes | of our History wind up in landfill. Treat it as recyclable and pass it along | to others. | | If you are a family historian, please place in your will or a codicil to | your will, | your desires for the disposal of your work when you pass away. | Perhaps you have a child who shares your interest. | Ensure that he/she is named as the recipient We cannot live forever, but we | can go great lengths to ensure our labours are passed along to future | generations. | If you are an elderly person, and are concerned about what to do with your | old papers, books, and photos; or if a relative passes away, and you don't | know | what to do with their old papers, contact a library or take them to a local | archives | or Genealogy Society or other location of your choice. As long as they are | preserved. | If you are unsure what should be saved, and what should not, unsure whether | it has historical significance, or if you are unsure of the best repository | to preserve | your legacy. | Please don't allow your bereavement to allow you to lose sight of the | importance | your family member, and past generations placed in this information. | As you can see from the research, I am one of the many who treasure our | History, | and truly believe that it is our most valuable resource, and that it should | be preserved, | and shared freely for all to benefit. Too many important documents have been | lost forever. | If we save only one document, it is all worth it. | Thank you one and all from the bottom of my heart. | | | | ==== HAMPSHIRE Mailing List ==== | Visit the knightroots website at www.knightroots.co.uk | |