Hello, I'm brand new to the list in order to pursue a family story with few details: Betty and Jane were possibly sisters or 1/2 sisters of a foremother (grand/great/ggrandmother?). They were employed by Winchester Cathedral as cooks. Now whether that meant they worked in the bishop's home...I'm not sure. Anyway, the story is that there was fat on the floor of the kitchen, one of the sisters fell, hit her head on the floor, and suffered brain damage. The Cathedral was kind enough, because she could no longer work, to provide her with a pension the rest of her life with the other sister providing care. I inquired of the librarian at the Cathedral if there was written record of this. It seems that a long term pension might certainly be fairly easy to find and he agreed to look. I followed up with another email about a year later and got no response. So, for whatever reason, he is unable/unwilling to assist. Can anyone give me any ideas how to follow up? Who to ask? (I am unable to pursue in person.) I have no idea as to time frame and since I don't know their last names, I have only the clues stated above. Thank you for any assistance, Pam Spooner, formerly of King's Lynn, Norfolk now in Texas [email protected] __________________________________________________ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com

If you put " Holy Trinity Church, Hawley " minus quotes into google seach "images" you get lots. On 12/04/2008, Christine Sadler <[email protected]> wrote: > > Does anyone have a photo of Holy Trinity Church, Hawley? > > Christine > > > > -- > -:¦:-..· ´¨¨)) -:¦:- > ¸.·´ .·´¨¨)) > ((¸¸.·´ ..·´ MOONFLEET-:¦:- > -:¦:- ((¸¸.·´*

Does anyone have a photo of Holy Trinity Church, Hawley? Christine

I am looking for the birth of a Mary Ann Norgrove supposedly born around 1821 or thereabouts in Hursley Hampshire. Can some kind soul see if she can be traced thru BDMs from that area. Thanks in advance Ken Wall No virus found in this outgoing message. Checked by AVG. Version: 7.5.519 / Virus Database: 269.22.12/1372 - Release Date: 10/04/2008 5:36 PM

Hi, I could not find a Mary Ann Norgrove on Ancestry but on looking up on find my Past a Mary Norgrove appears on each year born circa 1821, I don't subscribe to this site, so are unable to excess the image. I looked up on the G.R.O index and a Mary Ann Norgrove or a Mary A. Wall does not appear VAl -----Original Message----- From: [email protected] [mailto:[email protected]]On Behalf Of Bob Newell Sent: 11 April 2008 13:15 To: [email protected]; [email protected] Subject: Re: [HAM] Mary Ann Norgrove I suppose you have seen the IGI 0970400 Birth 1821 Hursley Marriage 1845 Edward WALL in Wales Death 31 Oct 1912. Bob Newell For FREE online parish register transcriptions visit the Hampshire OPC at www.knightroots.co.uk ------------------------------- To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to [email protected] with the word 'unsubscribe' without the quotes in the subject and the body of the message -- No virus found in this incoming message. Checked by AVG. Version: 7.5.519 / Virus Database: 269.22.9/1365 - Release Date: 08/04/2008 07:30

I suppose you have seen the IGI 0970400 Birth 1821 Hursley Marriage 1845 Edward WALL in Wales Death 31 Oct 1912. Bob Newell

Hi, You cant trace Mary Ann through B.M.D. as they don't start until 1837. But she is on the I.G.I. Mary Ann Norgrave born 1821 Hursley and died 31.10.1912. 1841 she was in Malmesbury Wilts, 1861,1871 1881 and 1891 in Ludlow Shropshire. Val -----Original Message----- From: [email protected] [mailto:[email protected]]On Behalf Of Ken Wall Sent: 11 April 2008 09:15 To: [email protected] Subject: [HAM] Mary Ann Norgrove I am looking for the birth of a Mary Ann Norgrove supposedly born around 1821 or thereabouts in Hursley Hampshire. Can some kind soul see if she can be traced thru BDMs from that area. Thanks in advance Ken Wall No virus found in this outgoing message. Checked by AVG. Version: 7.5.519 / Virus Database: 269.22.12/1372 - Release Date: 10/04/2008 5:36 PM For FREE online parish register transcriptions visit the Hampshire OPC at www.knightroots.co.uk ------------------------------- To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to [email protected] with the word 'unsubscribe' without the quotes in the subject and the body of the message -- No virus found in this incoming message. Checked by AVG. Version: 7.5.519 / Virus Database: 269.22.9/1365 - Release Date: 08/04/2008 07:30

I occasionlly take out a subscription, especially when they offer a special deal. It is well worth the outlay, as coverage on the free sites I have used is not extensive. If, like me, you do not live in the area you are researching, findmypast is an absolute boon. Go for it ! Vicki

Have you seen this http://www.british-history.ac.uk/report.aspx?compid=41940 ________________________________ From: [email protected] on behalf of david dowd Sent: Thu 10/04/2008 11:37 To: [email protected] Subject: Re: [HAM] Osborne and Shirley Families Hi John, have not followed this thread but would point out: the Hampshire Red Hill adjoins Rowlands Castle near Havant - it's now a triangular development bounded by Castle Road, Redhill Road (note: one word), and Manor Lodge Road. Regards, David For FREE online parish register transcriptions visit the Hampshire OPC at www.knightroots.co.uk ------------------------------- To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to [email protected] with the word 'unsubscribe' without the quotes in the subject and the body of the message

I used the pay per view for the passenger list, that was very good as the image gave me name, age, previous address, occupation, destination, and as one of my relatives was just visiting the country, the name and address where they stayed. BMD will not give you any more information then free bmd, you still need to purchase original. Census is the same, the information is the same as Freecen, the only difference if you can't access a free census then it is helpful, you get a full image. Depending on area you are searching it is possible to find free census online ie Dorset OPC have from 1841 - 1901. I found the cost of pay per view a little expense as I could only get a couple of images per cost. It is 30 units for 1 passenger image. Hope this helps Rose ----- Original Message ----- From: "Moss, Sharon ENV:EX" <[email protected]> To: <[email protected]> Sent: Friday, April 11, 2008 5:09 AM Subject: [HAM] Findmypast > Hi everyone, > > Sorry for posting on a county list, but I just wanted to know if anyone > uses & suscribes (via pay per view or other) to findmypast.com. I've > been on it a few times and wonder if it's worth it or not. The price > for pay per view seems reasonable, but wonder how much additional > information I'd really get than what I can get on freebmd/freecen and > other free resources on the 'net. > > Tia, > Sharon > In victoria, BC canada > > For FREE online parish register transcriptions visit the Hampshire OPC at > www.knightroots.co.uk > ------------------------------- > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to > [email protected] with the word 'unsubscribe' without the > quotes in the subject and the body of the message

Hi Amanda, Many thanks for the info on James and Henrietta, it's a real gem. From what you have told me about your research, you have the correct info for the Jordan family. I will put some further info together for you over the next couple of days, if thats ok with you. I am going through the Hampshire Bishops Transcripts at the moment for you, to see if there is anything about Frederick & Emma Sweetingham etc. Will be in touch soon. Regards Steve Amanda Monsen <[email protected]> wrote: HI Steve, Thanks for making contact. James & Henrietta married then had Maggie May B8/10/1883, Herbert James B1885, and possibly Ernest Edwin B1887 in Sway before immigrating to Australia in 1887 (I don't have any further information, yet!). They settled in Mount Morgan in Queensland and had a further 5 children (Charkes Joseph B 1890, William Alexander B1891, John Henry B 1892, Edith Maud B 6/2/1897 & James Robert B1901 - all in Mount Morgan, QLD). Edith Maud was my Great Grandma. Perhaps there were more children as there are gaps between John, Edith & James. I would really like it if you could help me with confirming the details I have for James Jordan and his parents, grand parents, etc. I have a lot for his side but have got it all of ancestry.com.au relying on other's research. I have James B 1851 in Sway with his Father being Charles Jordan B 1821 Hampshire, His mum being Edith Gates B 1829 Sway. Charles parents being Charles B 1791 Hampshire, Ann (maidne name unknown) B 1796 Hampshire Edith's parents being Joseph Gates B 1803 hampshire, Mary Ann Whicher B 11/8/1807 England. Does any of that agree with what you have? I'm really nervous my research was flawed. Please help. Thanks you! Kind regards, Amanda > Date: Wed, 9 Apr 2008 19:54:38 +0100 > From: [email protected] > To: [email protected] > Subject: Re: [HAM] Frederick & Emma Sweetingham - Sway, Hampshire > > Hi Amanda, James Jordan was my 3 x Gt Uncle he married Henrietta Flora on 26 Sep 1883 at St. Luke's church in Sway. I have been trying to find out where he disappeared to, for a long time and never thought it was to Australia. Thanks. > > Steve, in Nottingham > > Amanda Monsen wrote: > > Hello, I am appealing for help with my research into the Sweetingham's of Sway. I am very interested in all information to do with Frederick Sweetingham B1810 Southampton who married Emma (maiden name unknown) B 1811 Salisbury, Wiltshire. I know they had 6 children (Walter, Emma, Henrietta, Agnes, George & Lavinia) all born in Sway. Henrietta B 1844 is my ggg grandma on my mums side. I know she had a daughter as I sent away for the birth cert. It seems the daughter (Henrietta Flora) was illegitimate as there is no father on birth certificate. Henrietta Flora married James Jordan in Sway then shortly after immigrated to Australia - where I am. > > I have all the census results for the family except 1841. Also There is no mention of the Sweetingham's in Rev Comyns "Sway Snippets" of 1812ish, which would suggest that Frederick didn't arrive until after that. I suppose I am after any information to do with the family history and would be so grateful for anyone's kind assistance or suggestions. I am new to FH and very eager for information. > > Thanks, Amanda in Sydney Australia > > _________________________________________________________________ > Search for local singles online @ Lavalife - Click here > http://a.ninemsn.com.au/b.aspx?URL=http%3A%2F%2Flavalife9%2Eninemsn%2Ecom%2Eau%2Fclickthru%2Fclickthru%2Eact%3Fid%3Dninemsn%26context%3Dan99%26locale%3Den%5FAU%26a%3D30290&_t=764581033&_r=email_taglines_Search_OCT07&_m=EXT > For FREE online parish register transcriptions visit the Hampshire OPC at www.knightroots.co.uk > ------------------------------- > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to [email protected] with the word 'unsubscribe' without the quotes in the subject and the body of the message > > For FREE online parish register transcriptions visit the Hampshire OPC at www.knightroots.co.uk > ------------------------------- > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to [email protected] with the word 'unsubscribe' without the quotes in the subject and the body of the message _________________________________________________________________ You dream job is up for grabs. Grab it. http://mycareer.com.au/?s_cid=596065 For FREE online parish register transcriptions visit the Hampshire OPC at www.knightroots.co.uk ------------------------------- To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to [email protected] with the word 'unsubscribe' without the quotes in the subject and the body of the message

Hi everyone, Sorry for posting on a county list, but I just wanted to know if anyone uses & suscribes (via pay per view or other) to findmypast.com. I've been on it a few times and wonder if it's worth it or not. The price for pay per view seems reasonable, but wonder how much additional information I'd really get than what I can get on freebmd/freecen and other free resources on the 'net. Tia, Sharon In victoria, BC canada

Hi John, have not followed this thread but would point out: the Hampshire Red Hill adjoins Rowlands Castle near Havant - it's now a triangular development bounded by Castle Road, Redhill Road (note: one word), and Manor Lodge Road. Regards, David

It is unlikely that a birth in 1798 would be recorded as being in Redhill Surrey, that's the one about eight miles from Epsom, because it didn't exist back then. It began life as a stop on the London to Brighton railway to serve Reigate which is about a mile away. The registration district would have been Reigate or East Surrey. I am unable to find a Redhill in Hampshire, although there is a Redhill Farm near Godshill on the Isle of Wight! John -----Original Message----- From: [email protected] [mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf Of Bill Barber Sent: 10 April 2008 09:56 To: [email protected] Subject: Re: [HAM] Osborne and Shirley Families Hi, I found a John Osborne baptised 30/05.1798 Epsom Surrey which I believe is near Redhill parents Thomas Osborne and Sarah Val -----Original Message----- From: [email protected] [mailto:[email protected]]On Behalf Of steve tottman Sent: 09 April 2008 20:47 To: [email protected] Subject: [HAM] Osborne and Shirley Families I am researching the Osborne Family. The first relative I have is John Osborne born 1798 in Redhill, Hants. In 1841 census he is shown living in Holdenhurst with his wife Sarah. In 1851 and 1861 they are living in Moordown. They had three children, George, James and William Isaac. I am also researching the Shirley Family from the Holdenhurst area. The first I have is John Shirley born 1814. He married Ann Coombs (born in Wiltshire in 1814). They had four children Charlotte, John, Henry and Mary. Any information would be gratefully received. Regards Steve --------------------------------- Yahoo! for Good helps you make a difference For FREE online parish register transcriptions visit the Hampshire OPC at www.knightroots.co.uk ------------------------------- To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to [email protected] with the word 'unsubscribe' without the quotes in the subject and the body of the message -- No virus found in this incoming message. Checked by AVG. Version: 7.5.519 / Virus Database: 269.22.9/1365 - Release Date: 08/04/2008 07:30 For FREE online parish register transcriptions visit the Hampshire OPC at www.knightroots.co.uk ------------------------------- To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to [email protected] with the word 'unsubscribe' without the quotes in the subject and the body of the message

Hi, I found a John Osborne baptised 30/05.1798 Epsom Surrey which I believe is near Redhill parents Thomas Osborne and Sarah Val -----Original Message----- From: [email protected] [mailto:[email protected]]On Behalf Of steve tottman Sent: 09 April 2008 20:47 To: [email protected] Subject: [HAM] Osborne and Shirley Families I am researching the Osborne Family. The first relative I have is John Osborne born 1798 in Redhill, Hants. In 1841 census he is shown living in Holdenhurst with his wife Sarah. In 1851 and 1861 they are living in Moordown. They had three children, George, James and William Isaac. I am also researching the Shirley Family from the Holdenhurst area. The first I have is John Shirley born 1814. He married Ann Coombs (born in Wiltshire in 1814). They had four children Charlotte, John, Henry and Mary. Any information would be gratefully received. Regards Steve --------------------------------- Yahoo! for Good helps you make a difference For FREE online parish register transcriptions visit the Hampshire OPC at www.knightroots.co.uk ------------------------------- To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to [email protected] with the word 'unsubscribe' without the quotes in the subject and the body of the message -- No virus found in this incoming message. Checked by AVG. Version: 7.5.519 / Virus Database: 269.22.9/1365 - Release Date: 08/04/2008 07:30

HI Steve, Thanks for making contact. James & Henrietta married then had Maggie May B8/10/1883, Herbert James B1885, and possibly Ernest Edwin B1887 in Sway before immigrating to Australia in 1887 (I don't have any further information, yet!). They settled in Mount Morgan in Queensland and had a further 5 children (Charkes Joseph B 1890, William Alexander B1891, John Henry B 1892, Edith Maud B 6/2/1897 & James Robert B1901 - all in Mount Morgan, QLD). Edith Maud was my Great Grandma. Perhaps there were more children as there are gaps between John, Edith & James. I would really like it if you could help me with confirming the details I have for James Jordan and his parents, grand parents, etc. I have a lot for his side but have got it all of ancestry.com.au relying on other's research. I have James B 1851 in Sway with his Father being Charles Jordan B 1821 Hampshire, His mum being Edith Gates B 1829 Sway. Charles parents being Charles B 1791 Hampshire, Ann (maidne name unknown) B 1796 Hampshire Edith's parents being Joseph Gates B 1803 hampshire, Mary Ann Whicher B 11/8/1807 England. Does any of that agree with what you have? I'm really nervous my research was flawed. Please help. Thanks you! Kind regards, Amanda > Date: Wed, 9 Apr 2008 19:54:38 +0100 > From: [email protected] > To: [email protected] > Subject: Re: [HAM] Frederick & Emma Sweetingham - Sway, Hampshire > > Hi Amanda, James Jordan was my 3 x Gt Uncle he married Henrietta Flora on 26 Sep 1883 at St. Luke's church in Sway. I have been trying to find out where he disappeared to, for a long time and never thought it was to Australia. Thanks. > > Steve, in Nottingham > > Amanda Monsen <[email protected]> wrote: > > Hello, I am appealing for help with my research into the Sweetingham's of Sway. I am very interested in all information to do with Frederick Sweetingham B1810 Southampton who married Emma (maiden name unknown) B 1811 Salisbury, Wiltshire. I know they had 6 children (Walter, Emma, Henrietta, Agnes, George & Lavinia) all born in Sway. Henrietta B 1844 is my ggg grandma on my mums side. I know she had a daughter as I sent away for the birth cert. It seems the daughter (Henrietta Flora) was illegitimate as there is no father on birth certificate. Henrietta Flora married James Jordan in Sway then shortly after immigrated to Australia - where I am. > > I have all the census results for the family except 1841. Also There is no mention of the Sweetingham's in Rev Comyns "Sway Snippets" of 1812ish, which would suggest that Frederick didn't arrive until after that. I suppose I am after any information to do with the family history and would be so grateful for anyone's kind assistance or suggestions. I am new to FH and very eager for information. > > Thanks, Amanda in Sydney Australia > > _________________________________________________________________ > Search for local singles online @ Lavalife - Click here > http://a.ninemsn.com.au/b.aspx?URL=http%3A%2F%2Flavalife9%2Eninemsn%2Ecom%2Eau%2Fclickthru%2Fclickthru%2Eact%3Fid%3Dninemsn%26context%3Dan99%26locale%3Den%5FAU%26a%3D30290&_t=764581033&_r=email_taglines_Search_OCT07&_m=EXT > For FREE online parish register transcriptions visit the Hampshire OPC at www.knightroots.co.uk > ------------------------------- > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to [email protected] with the word 'unsubscribe' without the quotes in the subject and the body of the message > > For FREE online parish register transcriptions visit the Hampshire OPC at www.knightroots.co.uk > ------------------------------- > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to [email protected] with the word 'unsubscribe' without the quotes in the subject and the body of the message _________________________________________________________________ You dream job is up for grabs. Grab it. http://mycareer.com.au/?s_cid=596065

I am researching the Osborne Family. The first relative I have is John Osborne born 1798 in Redhill, Hants. In 1841 census he is shown living in Holdenhurst with his wife Sarah. In 1851 and 1861 they are living in Moordown. They had three children, George, James and William Isaac. I am also researching the Shirley Family from the Holdenhurst area. The first I have is John Shirley born 1814. He married Ann Coombs (born in Wiltshire in 1814). They had four children Charlotte, John, Henry and Mary. Any information would be gratefully received. Regards Steve --------------------------------- Yahoo! for Good helps you make a difference

Hi Amanda, James Jordan was my 3 x Gt Uncle he married Henrietta Flora on 26 Sep 1883 at St. Luke's church in Sway. I have been trying to find out where he disappeared to, for a long time and never thought it was to Australia. Thanks. Steve, in Nottingham Amanda Monsen <[email protected]> wrote: Hello, I am appealing for help with my research into the Sweetingham's of Sway. I am very interested in all information to do with Frederick Sweetingham B1810 Southampton who married Emma (maiden name unknown) B 1811 Salisbury, Wiltshire. I know they had 6 children (Walter, Emma, Henrietta, Agnes, George & Lavinia) all born in Sway. Henrietta B 1844 is my ggg grandma on my mums side. I know she had a daughter as I sent away for the birth cert. It seems the daughter (Henrietta Flora) was illegitimate as there is no father on birth certificate. Henrietta Flora married James Jordan in Sway then shortly after immigrated to Australia - where I am. I have all the census results for the family except 1841. Also There is no mention of the Sweetingham's in Rev Comyns "Sway Snippets" of 1812ish, which would suggest that Frederick didn't arrive until after that. I suppose I am after any information to do with the family history and would be so grateful for anyone's kind assistance or suggestions. I am new to FH and very eager for information. Thanks, Amanda in Sydney Australia _________________________________________________________________ Search for local singles online @ Lavalife - Click here http://a.ninemsn.com.au/b.aspx?URL=http%3A%2F%2Flavalife9%2Eninemsn%2Ecom%2Eau%2Fclickthru%2Fclickthru%2Eact%3Fid%3Dninemsn%26context%3Dan99%26locale%3Den%5FAU%26a%3D30290&_t=764581033&_r=email_taglines_Search_OCT07&_m=EXT For FREE online parish register transcriptions visit the Hampshire OPC at www.knightroots.co.uk ------------------------------- To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to [email protected] with the word 'unsubscribe' without the quotes in the subject and the body of the message

Hawley is near Blackwater, which is near Camberley. In Blackwater there is an area called Frogmore Park. Vicki

Hi Kate My research came about because I was investigating not my family but the name of my then local pub - The Drummond Arms. The research included visits to Winchester, Southampton and Portsmouth local studies libraries and the respective archives, the private archives of the Drummond family at Cadland, and with input of wills and other matters from others who were coincidentally researching for other reasons and approaching from different directions. The object family are the Drummonds, although the particular twig of the branch that was my primary focus was the 'black sheep' that must not be mentioned in polite society. Personally, I believe the story is quite moving and reflects the absolute hypocrisy that existed in society. However, these all seem to have had reasonably happy outcomes - as a good story should. The contact families, who had no direct bearing but came up in research included the Jenkinson's (of whom the Earl of Liverpool was the prominent member) included because of property transactions in the New Forest; the Hans Sloane family (included because of mutual business with the Anglo-Persian Oil company that lead to the construction of both Fawley oil refinery and the railway line that serves waterside)whose family owned Paultons and other parcels of land around Totton and other bits of real estate such as Sloane Square. Through marriage the family were related to many titled families but not usually from Hampshire (Manners, Seymour, Percy, Somerset and others). Of other local families they were married into the Humphrys, of whom William Charles Humphrys, JP was the Chairman of the Southampton Coke and Gas company and who had a town house where the Civic Square currently is in Southampton as well as his main house in Bursledon, where he was de facto squire. The Maturin family who were Protestant Irish and included the Vicar of Lymington, Physicians and Surgeons with bases in Fawley, Hartley Wintney and the Army Medical Service (later Royal Army Medical Corps). The Drummonds were of the family who owned Drummonds Bank (now part of the Royal Bank of Scotland) and were expatriate Scots whose forebears were active in the Stuart cause and indeed lost members of the family in or because of Culloden. I'm unsure whether this answers your question, but it does give you a flavour of some of the connections. Regards John -----Original Message----- From: [email protected] [mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf Of Kate Burhouse Sent: 09 April 2008 10:40 To: [email protected] Subject: Re: [HAM] HARRIS, Hursley Hi John Cold you let me know the other surnames linked with Charlotte, please. My husband's family has many links with landed-gentry in Hampshire and Dorset, so there may be a link. Thanks Kate -----Original Message----- From: [email protected] [mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf Of John Orchard Sent: 09 April 2008 01:21 To: [email protected] Subject: [HAM] HARRIS, Hursley Is anyone searching for the family of William and Sarah HARRIS of Hursley, on the road between Winchester and Romsey? He was a blacksmith and they had at least three children: Charlotte, born abt 1814; Thomas, born abt 1815 and Harriet, born abt 1817. As far as I know they were not both from Hursley, and the IGI seems to have people of these names being married at St Michaels' Southampton or at Romsey - I have not yet found them in the parish records and have only very limited time to dedicate to the search. I have a great deal of interesting information about Charlotte and her much later marriage, her 18 children and the fact that she ended up with the daughter of a Duke and Lord Lieutenant of Ireland as an in-law (husband's sister-in-law) , and the sister of Britain's only assassinated Prime Minister as a mother-in-law. It is interesting that the family, one of Hampshire's leading families, effectively disowned the couple but came, in time, to recognise the connection with at least a couple of their children in a bequest from one of the dowagers. If you have a connection, then please let me know - I can find you all sorts of interesting connections to this lady. I also know that about twenty odd years ago, some of her descendants were looking around trying to identify her. I have tried finding them, but I fear that they too have now passed away. John For FREE online parish register transcriptions visit the Hampshire OPC at www.knightroots.co.uk ------------------------------- To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to [email protected] with the word 'unsubscribe' without the quotes in the subject and the body of the message For FREE online parish register transcriptions visit the Hampshire OPC at www.knightroots.co.uk ------------------------------- To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to [email protected] with the word 'unsubscribe' without the quotes in the subject and the body of the message