My grandfather committed murder/suicide. I did not. I do not have a hard time talking about it it is history. His not mine. If we keep everything to our selves no one will benefit or learn from it. It is selfish. We all seem to want to know about everyone else's skeletons. But don't want to admit we have our own. If we read our family history but thought it was someone else's we would think "How interesting". Not what horrible descendents that person must have had. Let's make this fun as well as interesting. Nancy I am having so much fun I think I'll go eat another chocolate chip cookie.<G> ____________________________________________________________________ Get your own FREE, personal Netscape WebMail account today at http://webmail.netscape.com.