Hi My name is Timothy E Hadley I am sorry for your loss I did not know Rhoda, but I think we are most likely related. My grandfather grew up in Wilmington. His name was James Seth Hadley son of Alontie & Bell Hadley. Alontie is the son of Isabel & James Hadley. Let me know if any of the above names sound filmiliar. Again, I am sorry for your loss. Tim Hadley Farmersville Ohio