This is a Message Board Post that is gatewayed to this mailing list. Classification: Query Message Board URL: http://boards.ancestry.com/mbexec/msg/an/IBh.2ACIB/1261 Message Board Post: I found my great grandmother's grave without the help of Ancestory or un interested relatives. She is the first wife of John Gutherie, parents to Thomas , Maud, and Walter. On the headstone it shows she died Oct 1879 and the child died Dec. 1879 (Stella) Three months later John the father was having another baby by an 18 yr. old. Never knew him but would like to tell him what to do with it.