1--Seems like did the correct thing by NOT responding. Sounds too vague. 2--Unless she-he-it gave you another email address, how are supposed to reach that person if you are not to use the 'husband's' address? 3--If that person is a legit searcher/researcher of Green info, they're apt to be subscribed to this list and can contact your thru it. 4--You have given all of us a heads up on something new to watch out for. I, too, am leary, wary, suspicious, paranoid of ambiguous sounding 'personal' email. Let us know how this turns out. KA