Hi List, Life is all about making choices and I have included a few. 1. Be determined to make that great connection. 2. Share your infomation. 3. Glean information as it is provided by others. 4. Learn from others. 5. Relate to fellow researchers with their trials & tribulations. 6. Use delete key as needed. 7. Unsubscribe as a last resort. I prefer to use the first five choices and in doing so have make a wonderful find on this List. I believe genealogy requires patience, patience, patience. Be patient Bill, it could happen to you, also. Lois