Well folks, this constant bickering has finally led me to unsubscribe to this list. Green is only a collatoral line for me, and I was hoping that one day I might find a glimmer of a trail to my Green group. However, I'll just have to browse the archives occasionally. Just food for thought: When you want petty arguing to cease, begin with YOURSELF. I am the youngest and only girl in my family and was constantly teased by an older brother. My mother used to tell me to ignore it and he would stop. The more reaction he received, the more he teased. I had to grow up and develop MATURITY before I understood that and put it into practice. And you know what? He stopped when I stopped fueling the fire. I have not been bothered by those expressions of shock, grief, compassion and fear that have been placed on any list. I, too, subscribe to many and I have to say that this is the only list that has taken up such hostile bantering over it. Most of the lists have remained fairly quiet with a few comments and are now getting back to genealogy, without any of this ugliness. My best to all of you and....... MAY GOD BLESS AMERICA and may America accept the blessings with thanksgiving to Almighty God. Nancy