I am with the many that want to unsubscribe, its time to heal and stop talking about it so much, its becoming to be your worst obsession. And a obsession is not healthy for your mental mind and well being. If all you want to do is talk about what has happened to our wonderful country I think its time for picking up the telephone and getting incontact with some support groups, as we all are aware of this is a genealogy list not a terr. support group. So can we resume genealogy and get on with the wonderful lives we have. As it was mentioned to me in a private e-mail, people are acting like they have won, I believe she is onto something there. So stop a moment and please take note on your actions, 10 are they healthy 20 what can I do to help me heal from the trauma 3) seek assistance in it. Post traumatic stress syndrome can be managed I know this for a fact, I takes talking to the right people and none of us are educated enough to help in the way help is needed. That is how I have gotten to the point I am in my healing process, I have been there. So do not get over it, but do seek help. LRG-W