This is a Message Board Post that is gatewayed to this mailing list. Classification: Query Message Board URL: http://boards.ancestry.com/mbexec/msg/rw/5MZ.2ACEB/1160 Message Board Post: I dont understand what the big deal is and why everyone is looking for me. I've been living with my life partner stan for the last 7 years in Brooklyn, N.Y. He drives an ambulance and I work in rite-aid.