Hi Everyone, The list is set up so that when you click on reply, it replies to the list. We discussed this last summer, and most folks wanted the replies to the list. If you feel your message is not for the entire list, you will need to address your message to that individual. I for one enjoy getting all of the messages because I'm hoping someone might say something about my Joseph. Have a great evening. Warm regards, Sharon Clark Gilmore Family List Owner clarksha@swbell.net