Suzane now you say more that other siblilngs matched he did not so he was adopted or raised by them because of a need from someone else. OR did MOM's Mtdna match all children and he just did not match the ? father. See it can get complicated if not all facts are known but same applies. it will not change who you are or have become. God has His reasons. Obviously now is the time for this person to learn that he was chosen to be raised by them. Unless as otherwise stated the mtdna does match. Still nothing can be done about it except them for what they have done for you and slowly put self together and move forward. But he can have his DNA checked against all othe YDNA names and see whom he does belong to. :>) Susi ************** One site keeps you connected to all your email: AOL Mail, Gmail, and Yahoo Mail. Try it now. (http://www.aol.com/?optin=new-dp&icid=aolcom40vanity&ncid=emlcntaolcom00000025)