HELP!!! In my ever ongoing search for my BUSSELL family, I have found a cousin. they are the child of my grandmother's brother's son! This person is very close to my own age, AND my father ,born 1888 died 1866, was very close to this persons father. I was needless to say ecstatic.! The problem is this. Both I and one other relative contacted her by mail (the address BTW was given to me by a genweb administrator who KNOWS this person. The initial contact was our months ago! I wrote, enclosing a self addressed stamped envelope 2 and a half months ago! NEVER a reply. I contacted the GENWEB contact, who I know tried to nudge her , still NOTHING! She could be the only KEY to my quest! So many of you have much more experience here, HELP me think of an unobtrusive way to have contact with her PLLLEEEAAASEE! Believe me, I was kind, I was not demanding, I was not even overly 'chatty' in my letter. I made it clear the relationship, I did absolutely everything I could think of. I have NO idea why not even one little answer.! This is the New Mexico area, this is the final place of many of my ancestors, and I know the only key to finding the actual names of my Grandparents.! Thanks for your guys' help here marcia Moore Collins