There's a strong implication here for those who have a tendency to give "too much too soon" on their e-mails. Do NOT include your snail mail address (unless its an anonymous post office box) &/or phone number with the first inquiry you shoot out. Most of us are nice, normal, friendly folks, but there are a few kooks hiding in the bushes. Better to discuss those gone before, post what is being sought, and then get a little bit acquainted. I've seen a few on the lists post their addresses with their queries. Doesn't seem like a good idea to me, for just the reason described. Karen